A bit about me…

I believe it is always good to know somebody’s back story. Being a personal trainer is about not just about providing a great workout and motivation - it is about trust, communication and experience.

My love for fitness began (way) back in my teenage years, when school was a god-awful place for me.

I didn’t really fit in anywhere socially, so I avoided lonely lunchtimes and bullies by going to all the sports clubs I could to fill time with. Anything to get me out of the playground or lunch hall.

Then I found that I enjoyed sports, I enjoyed belonging to teams of people who chose to be there (not because it was a lesson on their timetable). Like minded people.

I found I was actually ok at some sports. But I still had a shyness and lacked confidence, so outside of school I stuck to sports I could do alone.

I went and did the sports that I thought were ‘cool’. I put myself in very male-dominated environments. I don’t know what a therapist would say about that, but it was where I was more comfortable.

I raced motorbikes - badly. But I did it! For a long time was the only girl racing. I rode mountain bikes - it got me out of the house and gave me time to escape. I took up exercise classes - Classes that were HARD. Made me sweat, challenged my mind as well as my body. It wasn’t until I turned 17 that I ventured into the gym. This was my game changer.

At around the age of 19, I lost a lot of weight. It wasn’t a conscious decision, but looking back, I can see it was an act of desperately trying to control something in my life. I restricted my diet hugely, but my knowledge of nutrition and fuelling myself was limited. So, long story short I ended up weighing less than 6 stone, and I was labelled as anorexic.

Unfortunately no amount of visits to the GP, arguments with my family or sessions with nutritionists changed my thought process, despite me knowing I could not carry on that way. So, I signed up to study Fitness Teaching and Coaching, and Gym Instructing.

My knowledge of training and nutrition grew and after being turned away for a job in a gym because I was so painfully thin, I decided enough was enough. I chose to gain weight my way. In the same way that losing weight quickly isn’t sustainable, gaining healthy weight was not going to happen in a couple of weeks or even months.

Female personal trainer, in a private gym. Isle of Wight

I won’t bore you with the years of bad form, fails and errors made in the physical sense. But what I found was, the gym became A Place For My Head. Time that I could take out my stresses and focus on resolving things in my head. The added bonus came in developing physical strength.

Twenty-six years later, the gym is an integral part of my life. I truly wouldn’t want to be without it.

I am mum to an amazingly unique little girl, so I understand the day to day struggles parents can have finding time for self care and exercise. I can relate to the daily struggles with childcare, school runs, work-life, pre and post natal issues. And, the mental torture of watching the same TV and films on constant repeat, or the meltdowns when THE TOY isn’t available that instant - I see and feel your pain!

I get it - the gym is not everybody’s cup of tea. But if I could bottle the feeling it gives me, I guarantee you’d want some of it. Call me - I’m always happy to chat about the benefits of exercise: 07545 325456.

Katie Przygonski personal training, Isle of Wight. Private gym.

Let’s get strong!